"Those who have experienced Paris have advantage over those who have not. We are the ones who have glimpsed a little bit of heaven, down here on earth." - Deirdre Kelly






Tuesday, December 06, 2016

O Christmas Tree...


"I wonder if the snow loves the trees and fields,
that it kisses them so gently." - Lewis Carroll

Yesterday was our first snowfall of the season. Huge, wet snowflakes painted the trees, fields and roads; in a steady slow motion fall. A Winter Wonderland and it was just gorgeous. Of course that also meant the roads would be a mess! But how could we pass up this picture perfect moment in which to get our Christmas tree? The whole family piled into Mr. G's SUV and away we went (at a very slow crawl).



"O Christmas tree. O Christmas tree.
How are thy leaves so verdant?
Not only in the summertime,
but even in winter is thy prime..."
- Ernst Anschutz, 1824

We went to our usual place - the Barn Owl Garden Center - a few miles down the road. We thought we left in plenty of time to get there before close but the roads were truly atrocious. I called ahead. Clark (the owner and Christmas tree wrangler) kindly said he'd stay open for us.


Sage and Never loved Kent, the resident dog.
Coco was not so sure...


Rory wasn't cold, seriously. 
I think all that hair kept him warm ;-}


Dorothy waited snuggly warm in the car.
We all took turns bringing her hot cider and sugar cookies.


We looked at 15 trees before we found the perfect one.


Victory!


Clark expertly wrangled our tree: 


First, into a nearby shed for a fresh cut and bundling, 
then on top of the car...


When and how did life get so hectic? Each of our three have school, active social lives, and play two sports (that means year 'round). Mr. G is a very busy business man. I'm teaching and pursuing my various artistic endeavors (including this blog). Our five separate schedules are non-stop. I try to cook at least twice a week but there's barely time - gotta eat on the go mostly; oh and sleep is a good thing ;-} The best part is that we do spend most of our time together - nightly homework 'round the kitchen table, sports events, Friday movie night.  I love my life. Our lives. We're all healthy, happy and in love with each other. Most importantly, we like each other. I am truly and fully blessed. But here's the thing...The first snowfall of the season was gorgeous but it also shut my little part of the world down, if only for a day. No sports practice(s), social activities, or jobs to get to. It felt like we were in one of those snow globes - in a world apart. And it was pretty damn fantastic. I truly treasure moments like these.

I'm pleased and proud to say that when we got home, a roasting pan of beef short ribs, on a bed of potatoes and veggies, awaited us (I slid it in the oven just before we left). We sat down for dinner then hauled the tree inside and put her in her honored place. On Wednesday - after work, school and sports - we're going to string lights and decorate the tree and house - a treasured snow globe moment of it's own. Maybe I'll make that Ina Garten Roast Chicken I've been dying to try. 'Tis the season ya'll!

Vivre, Rire, Aimer!
Temple









Thursday, November 03, 2016

Monday, October 31, 2016

all hallows eve...


"...when magic, old magic, sings its heady 
sweet song to anyone who cares to hear it." 
- Carolyn MacCullough

Christmas is my favorite holiday but, as my motherhood has progressed, I am falling more and more in love with Halloween. Its acceptance of the duality of the darkness and light that exists within us all; its embrace of the earth's age old change of seasons. It's a carefree celebration of imagination, fun, revelry and sweets of every size, color and flavor. It's a celebration that invites children of every age to walk house-to-house to receive oohs and ahhs over their costumes and leave with candy and well wishes. 


"I love the spirit of Halloween 
and the energy that comes with it."
- Katherine McPhee

It's been years since Halloween fell on a day I'm teaching. So when I realized that this year, one of my classes did - my students and I decided to celebrate it right..We had a regular class but nearly everyone wore a costume (including me ;-} and a few of them baked treats for us all.



"The farther we've gotten from the 
magic and mystery of our past, the more we need it." 
- Paula Guran

But the best part of this holiday was the trick-o-treaters!


An Eiffel Tower and red Geraniums add a little bit of Paris


Sage - Grrrr, Argggg


My Never and Coco loves

My daughter (Sage) went Trick-o-Treating with her Girl Power Posse early, but my boys stayed and helped me pass out hugs and candy before they left. My oldest (Rory) was especially diligent about ensuring that the candy we gave out had the highest yummy quotient ;-}


Rory - my official quality control - candy taste tester


!Happy Halloween!
Temple




Friday, October 14, 2016

Traveling SistahDiva Style (2016 edition). Part 1: What to Wear, What to Pack


"Traveling - it leaves you speechless, 
then it turns you into a storyteller." 
- Ibn Battuta

Sadly, tragically, I've been caught in the throes of a long travel draught. Well, no more of that! My recent adventures in Montreal, the Gold Coast, and my desire to expand my search for 'all things Parisian,' have inspired me. Time for me to dust off my suitcases. Of course any and all successful travel adventures begin with planning and research (love the internets!). I decided to take my own advice - I consulted my Travel SistahDiva Style 5-part series (first published, here, in 2011). Wow! What a difference 5 years makes! In the interim I've seen, experienced, learned, discovered so many new aspects of travel (wonk, fashion, gadgets) that, before I knew it, I was extensively updating the 1st entry. So much so, I've decided to publish a 2016 edition. 

Thus, without further ado...


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"There is no moment of delight in any pilgrimage 
like the beginning of it." - Charles Dudley Warner
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I LOVE to travel, every moment of it - from deciding where you're going, to the ride home from the airport. Packing and 'getting there' are their own mini trips, particular adventures. 

There's nothing more tiring and annoying than lugging a huge, packed to the gills, heavy suitcase for what seems like 5 miles through an airport. And you always wear only a third of what you packed and still don't have the things you need [oye]! There's nothing more irksome and nerve-racking then sitting in a tiny airplane seat: bored to tears and uncomfortable to boot [sigh]. 

Over the past 30 years I've traveled in everyway a person can: by plane, train, bus, car, sailboat and motorized yacht. I've traveled in almost every incarnation: child, college student, single, married, married with children, and married with children, an elder, and a dog! And, though it took me several attempts and failures, I've realized that: a) you don't need to bring a lot to look fabulous and be comfortable while traveling; and b) you can have a relaxing diva-luxurious in-flight experience - yes you can!


Paris with the entire entourage ;-)

For the sake of length and detail, I'm dividing this series into 5 posts (I'll add a link to all 5 at the end of every entry). You know me, so you know where I'm going to start - what to wear. Believe it or not, how you dress for travel is an essential component to a positive travel experience.


"I get ideas about what's essential 
when packing my suitcase." 
- Diane Von Furstenberg

Travel Ensemble:

Note: I'm assuming that you're traveling somewhere where the temperature low is 40, the high 80. I don't ever go anywhere 'winter-cold' on purpose - I live in the midwest for goodness sake.

Your ensemble should be soft and comfortable; have layers you can easily add, remove, and stow; wrinkles very little, and looks effortlesslly chic. Just because your schleping halfway across the world doesn't mean that you can't look and feel fantabulous while you're doing it! 

You should have one outfit that you wear going and coming, but not during your actual trip. As soon as you arrive at your final destination, go to the laundrymat or send it out if you're staying in a hotel (@$10-$20 - it's worth it), then hang it up and don't touch it 'til the day you leave. You won't have to worry about if you've got enough room in your suitcase. And you'll have a crisp clean gorgeous and comfortable outfit all ready and waiting = no worries ;-)

Your travel outfit should be very simple, neutral colors: black, grey, mauve, sage, khaki (the color not the clothes), brown, creme/tan; with dashes of color (a brilliantly colored scarf, some red lipstick...) - the goal is classic elegance. Travel is a wonderful experience - even if you're going to Canton, Ohio for the weekend. It's about fantasy, romance and adventure - even if you're going to a sales meeting. So why not look and feel like it? These are my favorite pieces...


Hankercheif Linen Pj Pants ($80) 
- also available in winter weight fabric(s)

Sandmaiden Sleepwear

Circle Wrap w/ Kilt Pin ($75) - Sandmaiden

I know, you're thinking "Pj pants in public?" To that I answer "Oh yes!" Amanda Boyd (Sandmaiden) hand makes these pants to order in a variety of beautiful colors, in several luxurious materials (linen, cotton, and light wool - all organic). She can make them drawstring or foldover top (soft and non-binding - essential comfort while in a tiny airplane seat for 3+ hours). Her cardigans are so decadent I can't find the words. Amanda's clothes are of the highest quality and there's something wonderful about having a few outfits that have literally been handmade for you. Also, they fold up very small - easy to put in your carry-on - and so pretty!  


Wanna kick it up an extra diva notch? 
Check out Marcella Moda

Marcella Moda 
Minimalist clothing, effortless, elegant, edgy.


Finespun Slash V-Neck Tee ($25) - J.Crew
Get these in as many colors as you can.

J.Crew's tees are phenomenal. They're roomy enough to hide my baby-belly-paunch, yet fitted and feminine enough so that I don't look like I'm wearing one of Mr. Gorgeous' tees. They come in about a dozen colors (your flash of brilliance) and last forever  


Fall/Winter 


Spring/Summer

J.Crew's Cashmere Collection is simply the best on the planet. 10 different styles that, come in 2 dozen colors (with more colors added steadily); you can wear them alone but they easily fit over a short-sleeved tee (go one size up) and under a cardigan. Yeah, they're costly - they're permenently on my Christmas, Birthday, and Anniversary lists, I've got 20. And NO I didn't pay full price for most of them. J.Crew always has them on sale ($75 to $100) and you can always find them at Ebay for 65%+ off (I regularly get them there for $50). The only downside to Ebay is that you have to constantly keep and eye out for your size and the colors are limited - still they're so worth the extra time and effort to find at a reasonable price. They're gorgeous, decadently soft, and last forever.

I know that a Sandmaiden/Marcella Moda/J.Crew travel ensemble is not cheap, especially if you buy a set each for fall/winter and spring/summer colors. They're an investment, that you'll wear forever, and are well worth it. Just make sure to use Woolite, the delicate cycle on the washing machine, and the delicate cycle on your dryer (or hang dry). 

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"A woman is never sexier than when 
she is comfortable in her clothes."
- Vera Wang
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Still, there are less expensive, slightly lesser quality options:

Beach Linen Pant ($35) - Victoria's Secret

V-Neck Sleep Tee ($18) - Victoria's Secret
Get these in as many colors as you can.

Cotton & Cashmere Cardigan ($40) - Victoria's Secret

Victoria's Secret has several types of drawstring pants, tees, and cardigans - in several beautiful colors. The downside is that the quality is average and their items don't wear well over time - for travel. Though, if you commit to Woolite, the delicate cycle and hang-dry, you'll get a respectable amount of wear. And Victoria's Secret's clothes and shoes make up a large part of my everyday wardrobe (love their cargo pants).

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It's isn't the mountains ahead to climb that wear you out;
it's the pebble in your shoe." - Muhammad Ali
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Fall/Winter
Dansko @ $100 at Amazon.com

Perhaps the most important part of your travel wardrobe is your everyday shoe. You're going to be schlepping through airports (there and back); and walk several miles a day. Leave the impractical shoes at home and go for comfort. Believe me, there's nothing worse than going into hour 2 of your 4 hour walk with sore feet! I bought my first pair of Dansko clogs 15 years ago and just bought my second pair 2 months ago. These amazing shoes easily tread over any and all street surfaces and come in a dizzying array of colors, patterns, and finishes. Don't let the photos fool you, these look fabulous on and are so comfortable. 

Anniel Ballerina Flats ($150 USD)

In my humble estimation, Ballet Flats are the perfect Spring/Summer shoe for travel (heck, they're perfect any and everywhere!) They're the perfect blend of elegant and practical; and go with everything (from dresses to a pair of jeans)  I'm in love with these Ballerinas from Anniel. Currently they're available in 14 shades (Black, Navy, several shades of nude, pinks and grays). Yes, at $150 USD they are a splurge, but keep in mind these beauties will see a lot of wear. Your feet will thank you.

Sidebar: American travelers PLEASE don't wear gym shoes! Everyone who sees you will laugh at you and talk about you behind your back. They are NEVER stylish - EVER! Dansko clogs come in men's sizes and man-sandals are always cool and timeless. See - manly, comfortable and stylish too.

There are two more essential travel pieces:

Sweater Coat from Etsy.com

Sweater coats are awesome! They're essential - cashmere tees and cardigans easily fit beneath it and they're small enough to fit in an overhead bin. Again, they come in all colors, materials and patterns. I get all of mine on Etsy.com and Ebay - from Boho Chic to Stella McCartney, at all price points. Go take a look, you'll fall in love with them too.



Wraps/Shawls are my most favorite wardrobe item - period. They come in a-gazillion colors, patterns and materials and they are always so chic and elegant - effortless style. They're easy and light to pack (even the winter weight ones). Pair with a cashmere tee and/or a cardigan and you're toasty warm in most cold weather and the dreaded indoor air conditioning. And they also make great blankets and pillows - when you miss your connecting flight and have to stretch out on a few chairs to nap; they're lifesavers when the weather turns unexpectedly cold (I've also used them as stroller blankets, an emergency diaper changing station, and a Coco pillow - but that's for another post). You can find them everywhere but my favorite, reliably reasonably priced places are: Target, Overstock.com, Smartbargins.com, Ebay.com and Amazon.com. They're a must have - you won't be sorry.

Check out my post dedicated to sweater-coat-love here


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"Clothes mean nothing until someone lives in them."
- Marc Jacobs
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What to Pack (all of the above +)
Over the years, I've put together a travel wardrobe - my specific go to pieces whenever/where ever I travel. Of course you'll wear this stuff in your everday/home life. The idea is to not have to scramble or spend a lot of wardrobe money on a specific trip; to be able to grab your suitcase, pack quickly and efficiently and go. 

In addition to Tees and Cashmere...


Pixie Pants (ankle): they come in a gazillion colors 
[your dash of color?(@ $35, Old Navy)]

Gap's 'Sexy Boot' Jeans  (($60). 

We American girls love our jeans!

Express 'Barely Boot' Jeans ($80)


Mr. G and me (Paris 2012)


Pencil skirts are my favorite type of skirt. They elongate the torso and legs, are sexy and elegant. But they have to fit your individual form. For years I've been looking for the perfect one for me. I finally decided to splurge and have one handmade for me in Paris. If you find a Pencil Skirt you love (that comes in a variety of colors) let me know and I'll post it here.

Spring/Summer

I've recently discovered the joy and many treasures to be found in high end consignment boutiques (I'll post about this at length in a few) Finally! I've been able to not only fully explore and indulge in my love for pretty dresses, I now always add them to my suitcase. Timeless, effortless, romantic, easily packable chic. Pair it with your Ballerinas and a wrap - so fabulous! From a museum tour straight to dinner.

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"I firmly believe that 
with the right footwear 
one can rule the world." 
- Bette Midler
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Honey, it's the Shoes!
Yeah, practical shoes for a traveling SistahDiva are a must. But a gir'ls still gotta have a super diva shoe...


Spring/Summer
Cork Wedge Sandals @ Boston Proper - 4" with a 1" platform

Fall/Winter
'Cyntia' Wedge Ankle Boot, Jessica Simpson ($119 USD)

Of course you'll need a dress-up shoe while on your travels. But who wants to walk over cobblestoned streets, gravel, etc. in the dark, eat and drink plenty, then shake their booty on a dance floor in stiletto heels? Ouch! La solution? It's all about the Wedge. They cover the entire foot, giving even shock absorbing comfortable support. 1-2 inches are platform, so 4 inches become 2 or 3 - all the advantages of a high heel without the discomfort.  They're the secret to fashionable diva strolling comfort. I've tip-toed over cobblestoned Paris streets at 2 in the morning in these, in total comfort, and lived to tell the tale. 

Sparkle Plenty


Rising Jewel Collection  ($8 each set)



As for jewelry, keep it simple, inexpensive but most of all elegantly fun. I'm seriously feeling Charming Charlie's 'Rising Jewels Collection.'  It comes in every jewel and pastel tone you can think of. Charming Charlie's also has a dizzying selection of inexpensive rings, bracelets, and necklaces. As for fabulous statement pieces? What better way to memorialize your trip than to buy a few fabulous pieces of jewelry?

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"Pack up all my care and woe. Here I go, singing low..." 
- Henderson/Dixon (1926) 
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The Right Tools for the Job


"It's best to have your tools with you." - Stephen King

During my travels I've discovered four essential tools that absolutely need to always be in every SistahDiva's suitcase. No matter how carefully or gently you pack your clothes, most every piece is going to be wrinkled/creased by the time you reach your final destination. Sending out, via your hotel or local laundry/cleaners is expensive and time consuming (and next day service is a substantial up-charge). But I have the perfect solution for your cares and woes...

Pure Enrichment Fabric Steamer (Amazon $30)

The Pure Enrichment Fabric Steamer is small but mighty. Hang your article of clothing, pour in a cup of tap water, wait 2-3 minutes til it starts to steam and you're good to go.

Just in case:
3M/Command Plastic Damage Free Removable Hooks
6 /$6 USD @ Target, Walgreens, & Amazon


Steamer magic works best when the article you're de-wrinkling is first slightly dampened. Spritzing with plain water will get the job done; but spritzing with a softly scented spray keeps your clothes fresh smelling,  even after one or two wears (it's a very good thing). My favorite:

Pecksniff's Fresh Linen Spray (16oz $22 @ Amazon)
Comes in several gorgeous scents
Just make sure to pack it in your suitcase...




Explore! Dream! Discover!

Temple







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